Hello and welcome to anyone reading!
Today we have a new read to do, from a querant who asks “What signs should I look for, so I know if he's "The One"?
I cleared and shuffled the deck, and am not assigning positions on this one; it’ll be a straight 3 card read, with each card answering that same question.
And the cards drawn are:
Card #1…The Three of wands
Threes are powerful spiritual numbers, symbolizing connection and strength; the three of wands is all about that connection moving things forward; it stands for exploration & foresight, stepping back from the immediate and taking the long view; and in most reads it means you're likely coming up on some bargaining / negotiation, and you have the position of power. So what does that mean with regards to whether or not someone is “The one”? I’d start with the connection; being really analytical about it, and removing fear of the unknown or of being alone from the equation… is he someone you can truly see yourself spending the rest of your life with? Without struggling to do it, can you name three things about him that you see as the cornerstones you can build a good and happy life on? If not, he’s not the one. The position of power thing is interesting. A very long time ago, my grandmother said to me that you “should always marry someone who loves you more than you love them, because then you always have the power in the relationship”. I don’t think I’ve ever hated a sentence more. Love isn’t about balance of power, and if you’re treating it like it is, you don’t love him. When you have differing opinions, how do you resolve them? Do you love him enough to put his needs first? Does he love you enough to do the same? Think over the last time you disagreed on how to handle something…if you extrapolate that out, if the something was a REALLY important something, are you going to be ok with the way you communicate and resolve things? Did he treat you with love and respect while you worked out the disagreement? If yes, he may be the one!
Card #2……The Six of swords
Sixes are cards of harmony in the tarot deck & the six of swords is about a journey; a transition or rite of passage. It frequently indicates you've been struggling with something and relief will come through a transition. I think the sign here would be an actual journey – take a trip! It doesn’t have to be around the world; it could be as simple as a road trip, although you’ll want at least one overnight; it could be sleeping in a tent or in a friends guest room, so doesn’t have to have big out of pocket costs (although of course, if you’re in the position to splurge, travel is almost always a good place to spend excess cash!). The ability to travel together harmoniously and enjoy the adventure is a huge sign of a healthy and positive relationship – something always goes differently than expected when on the road, and it’s good to know if your reactions to those little misadventures (which are a constant part of life) work well together! A first trip is a huge rite of passage in a relationship, and a great way to get some perspective on your long term probabilities.
Card #3 …The Fool
The fool represents us being at the start of a journey or phase in our life; we have the tools we need to move forward, but we may not yet know what exactly it is that we'll need as we move further down the path. The fool in response to this question would say that sign you should look for is whether he is going to be there with you to embrace the surprises in life, if he can make the decision that you're going have fun with whatever happens and use each day as an opportunity to bring light into your life? This and the card above would indicate to me that my querant needs a man in her life who is optimistic & joyful, so she should question whether the man she’s considering fits those criteria. You don’t want to marry a fool in the traditional sense of the word, but a man who sincerely enjoys life and who will be able to find happiness in the journey with you is a VERY good man to have at your side.
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Wishing you all a most blessed day!
Paula @ FibonacciTarot
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